Thank you Trista for this beautiful work. I've had many differences with my family over the years too. My wife and I are going to see them for Thanksgiving this year. First time since the pandemic began. Let's just say that it's going to be an extremely emotionally complicated visit. Not sure how to navigate it actually. Forgiveness helps. I appreciate your reminder to accept them exactly the way they are. I can also extend that forgiveness to myself for some of my past behaviors that were much less than loving.