Dear WIMO,
It has always been a tough thing for me to balance work and family. Family is really important to me, and being a financial contributor is also important. I need to be doing my part to be a good financial partner to my wife. I certainly don't want to be a burden. I would continue to meditate on it. I trust that you will learn how to balance. I think that trusting yourself to do this will go a long way to feeling more confident. It sure is nice to have some wonderful choices ahead of you. I congratulate you for this!